My First Cunnilingus Orgasm

I love a good pussy eater

I love a good pussy eater

It wasn’t until I was about 30 years old when someone satisfied me through oral sex. That seems like a really long time to wait, but I know of women that have never cum during oral. Most women I speak to about this topic agree that most men do not know what they’re doing. How sad!

I was parked on the side of a dirt road in of the back of an SUV with a really hot guy that knew what he was doing. We had known each other for a while but never acted on our sexual tension. He wasn’t interested much in fucking; he wanted to go down on me and please me. I had never in my life known that anyone going down on me could feel so fucking great! He was sucking on my clit, my labia, and fingering me at the same time. He wasn’t gentle, and I didn’t need him to be. I don’t remember how many times he made me cum, but I know I didn’t want him to stop. I think the only reason we stopped was because another car was heading our way.

We never hooked up again after that, probably because our work schedules were opposite. But I will never forget that he was my first going down orgasm.

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      • Women expect us to know how to eat pussy and few want to be bothered to teach a guy how to do it. It’s like this: I’ve been eating pussy since I was 10 and I’ve learned a lot of trick and tips, have the utmost desire and persistence, to eat a woman insane.

        I live to do that to women. But…

        Would I know how to eat you? You’d assume that I would but, I actually don’t since I know not every woman has the same buttons to be pushed to guarantee orgasm. Yes, I’ve orally given women their first oral orgasm… but because I’ll also take the time and ask how they wanna be eaten – and, yes, most women won’t tell me (a) because I’m supposed to know how it works with ANY woman (that’s impossible) and, (b) um, because some women actually don’t know what it’ll take to get them off like that.

        How did I learn? I had women teach me and I was bold and crazy enough to ask them to teach me since, at the time, any dude could fuck a girl – but not every dude could or wanted to eat pussy and women pretty much demanded good pussy eating and not that token lick stuff that makes women nuts.

        “Lick it before you stick it?” Shit, you have no idea…

        It takes X-amount of time to make a woman orgasm this way, sometimes quickly and sometimes you’d better pack a lunch – a lot of that depends on her and the phrase, “I’m not hard to please” scares the daylights out of me; the same thing doesn’t always work from woman to woman… or twice in a row with the same woman. Technique is good; what you really need is patience and persistence or you keep eating her until she begs you stop and she’s looking at you like you just tried to kill her… or she can’t move at all for a few.

        The devil is always in the details and a lot of men don’t want to be bothered with those details because they can be all over the place as well as what I said at first: Most women will not tell you how to eat them senseless – a defense mechanism? – and many just do not know so they put the pressure on a guy who, going in, has no idea what it’s gonna take to make bombs go off in her head and when he can’t, well, he obviously doesn’t know what to do, huh?

        If you leave us to our own devices, your satisfaction is a crap-shoot; maybe he pushes the right buttons purely by accident or he’s so far off base it isn’t funny and guess which thing usually happens?

        I know how to eat pussy; what I don’t know is how you like and want YOURS eaten and if you can’t or won’t tell me, see the above paragraph. And, in my opinion, a man who won’t ask (for fear of looking stupid and inexperienced) is making a huge mistake and the woman who replied, “Don’t you know?” or “You’re supposed to know!” is also making a huge mistake.

        Many women have told me no one has ever made them cum like that; I’ve said, “Well, let’s see what we can do to change that…”

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  1. That’s definitely a spicy memory worth keeping! I’ve experienced a few orgasms by cunnilingus but the whole thing was sorta tainted by the circumstance of the setting/ situation so it’s definitely not one of my most fond memories. But if given the opportunity it’s something I’d love to experience again. Which is easier said than done as Kdaddy23 pointed out. Not many men are into that sort of foreplay or some say they are because they’re hoping to tell us what we want to hear but then do a half- assed job at it with minimal effort. lol

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  2. I lurve to be licked out! Your blog is FAB btw, I love discussing sex and now I have somewhere to do it 😉 AWESOME JOB WITH YOUR BLOG! I had a fab oral experience earlier today *ahhhhh* Now I am coming off my antidepressant tablets I can come again really quick, YAY!! haha. I have had a few awful experiences with men who aren’t my husband, but luckily I have selected a husband who does a fucking good job of cunnilingus. I think if I ever look for a new model I’ll put cunnilingus expert on the job description haha 🙂 Imani X

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  3. Women are notoriously slow to arousal and I can’t think of a better way to get her lust pegged than to spend an hour eating her if it’s called for. I tell women it’s not that I eat pussy… I LOVE to eat pussy and so much that I’d rather eat it than fuck it; my idea of fun would be just to walk up to you, strip those panties off, spend a lot of time down there inducing orgasms… then going back to whatever I was doing.

    Not one for bragging but I can eat pussy all day, every day; if you don’t absolutely love doing it for her, why bother at all? We had a saying when I was growing up: If you wanna keep a woman, you’d better eat her like her pussy is the last meal you’ll ever had because if you don’t, she will leave you for the guy (or even gal) who will eat her as if their life depended on it.

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    • You know, whenever I’ve heard men say they could eat pussy all day, I never believed it. Then last year I met someone that really could. It was amazing.

      I also think that slow to arousal depends on the woman and the situation. For me personally, if I have things on my mind, those things seem to take precedence to sex. If I’m hungry, I have to eat before I can think about sex. If there are kids around or I can hear them in my neighborhood, that’s a huge mood killer!

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      • And therein lies the problem in eating a woman to orgasm and why a lot of men fail to induce it and why many women say they can’t cum like that.

        The worst time to eat a woman is when she’s distracted – and it doesn’t take a whole lot to make her go from 100 to 0 and in no time at all. Also bad: If a woman believes she cannot be made to cum like this, it will be very hard to change her mind and the thing to do is to ask her why she believes that – then convince her that she should believe that she can cum like that.

        Also bad: The woman who wants to cum like this but is trying hard to make it happen. The key here is to just relax, get rid of the expectation, and if you can, just let it happen. I know that some women are actually afraid to orgasm because to them, it represents a loss of control so she’ll want it to feel good… but not THAT good – really intense oral orgasms can be pretty scary to some women.

        Also bad: The woman who will not tell whoever’s eating her what she wants to feel, like, faster, slower, harder, softer, ooh, yeah, stay right there, oh, wait, do that again. Equally bad: The guy who won’t follow directions when she gives them.

        Very bad: If I were to ask you how to make you cum like this, could you tell me? Some women do not know how their bodies work, as strange as that sounds.

        Horribly, terribly, and nightmarishly bad: Letting past bad experiences being eaten get in the way of enjoying it and having multiple toe-curling orgasms.

        I can talk about this like forever…

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